Human first
Understand the person before you understand the opportunity.
People don't buy from companies. They buy from people they like, trust and feel understood by. Before you work out what someone needs professionally, work out who they are: how they think, what they value, how they prefer to communicate. The seller who walks in knowing the human has an advantage before the meeting starts.
In practice- Learn what they have chosen to share publicly — interviews, talks, writing — before the professional detail
- Find genuine common ground and use it as a bridge, never as a lever
- Adapt your style to theirs, not to a script
- Show curiosity about their world before you talk about yours